Last October, I joined Forma Athletics’ running group. The group is led by Dustin, who runs like a gazelle, but with a gorgeous smile and a nicer backside. Every M/W/F Dustin and our rag tag group of moms can be spotted sprinting down lanes, slogging up endless hills and pounding the pavement alongside the gorgeous north shore mountains. I’m usually in the back half of the pack, sweating like a pig, just trying to survive the workout.
In running with this group of mostly marathoners, I felt compelled to sign up for two half-marathons this year (since we were training towards them anyways) – the BMO Vancouver Half-Marathon followed by the Scotiabank Vancouver Half-Marathon just 7 weeks later (which by the way, equals a marathon in my math books!). I’ve run 4 half-marathons before but it’s been 3-4 years since I’d logged more than the occasional 8K run, and I’ve never run 2 half-marathons in one year.
In March, my training became seriously hampered by my love of a good night out with my girlfriends and a weakness for white wine. So as is my nature, I began to downplay my time goal for the BMO half. I told my personal trainer Ainslie that my goal for the BMO half was simply “to feel good, in order to save my energy for a personal best at the Scotia half.” While I don’t like to admit this about myself, if I know I’m not going to be satisfied with my results (in anything), I tend to not try as hard, so that my “failing” can be blamed on lack of effort rather than lack of ability. Crazy and self-sabotaging, I agree.
And this is what Ainslie emailed back to me.
“Bullsh*t. Why wait for the next race to go hard?
I want you to giv’er sh*t!! You have trained a lot for this race and you
are not only ready to take it on and complete it – you are ready to add a
little pepper to your step. Sometimes it’s scary to go for it, believe me
It’s far more satisfying to give a full effort and feel like you ran your
best than to hold back on the throttle and wonder if you had more in the
tank. Believe me. I know you a little more than you may realize – you are
always the first one to say something’s impossible, then you’re also the
first person to conquer it and surprise yourself.
Find that 1:55 pace bunny and RIP it’s ears off!”
Ainslie is wise beyond her 26 years. She did not give me room to hide behind myself. She challenged me to be awesome and I went for it. It was a beautiful day for the BMO Vancouver Half-Marathon and I ran my sturdy little legs off. I’ve never ran so far for so long and felt so good.
I drew energy from:
– the cheering crowds (what kind of people give up a Saturday sleep-in to cheer on strangers at 7AM? Angels, that’s who!),
– the gorgeousness of Vancouver on a sunny spring day,
– my kicking Coldplay infused playlist,
– the 10,000 runners themselves (some ran for loved ones lost, some ran with funny messages like, “If you can read this sign, I’m still ahead of you!” and “This is not sweat, it’s liquid AWESOME!” and still others ran simply because they can)
– and of course, my girls!
Inspired by Gabrielle Bernstein’s piece, “A Bit of Bragging Looks Good on You,” I’m proud to report I ran a 2:03:33!
Watch out Scotiabank Half-Marathon bunnies, I’ll be gunning for you!
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Wow…way to go! I am truly inspired by a) your commitment; b) your achievement and c) your realizing the wisdom in putting your best into every thing you do & every race you run 🙂
Thanks MA! Imagine what I’ll be able to do when I get out of my own way! xo
Congratulations on a huge accomplishment! And I agree, the other people and the signs the spectators bring make a huge difference to your mental space. I’ll never forget seeing the sign “My Grandma thinks you’re SEXY” at mile 20, and I laughed all the way to the finish line. Sometimes, that’s all it takes.
Here’s to the Scotiabank Half, and beyond!
Thanks D! The cheers were deafening at the Lululemon cheer station at English Bay, I thought I was going to burst out crying! And then some dude was booming the soundtrack to “Chariots of Fire” in Yaletown. They really do make a huge difference!
PS. you ARE sexy!
I see 1:55 in your future !! Thank you for your support Nancy and the rest of the crew. Had it not it been for you I may have not been there !! Scotia 1/2 here we come !!
I see 1:55 in OUR future! Go Lori Go!